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Gay Tulum Guide


Gay Tulum was a holiday-spot for the Mayan Kings, the original sun worshipers and their legacy can still be viewed today, right on the beach.

Gay Tulum Guide

The Tulum Ruins, one of the most visited in Mexico.

Tulum, just 40 minutes’ drive from nearby Playa del Carmen is located at the end of the Riviera Maya. The Riviera is a stunning stretch of coastline that runs from 10 miles south of Cancun, includes the beach town of Playa del Carmen and finishes 75 miles later at Tulum.

Tulum is surrounded by beautiful lush jungles and  magical freshwater cenotes.  It is also home to some stunning hotels, authentic restaurants and cool cocktail hang-outs.  With soft sandy beaches, perfect weather and crystal-clear waters, it is easy to get lost in this Mexican paradise.

Note as of December 2023, Tulum has its one International airport, with direct flights from major hubs and more to come. Previously visitors arrived via Cancun Airport.

Table of Contents

  • Where to Stay in Gay Tulum?
  • Recommended Hotels in Gay Tulum
  • Gay Map of Tulum
  • Gay and Gay Friendly bars in Tulum
  • Gay Friendy Restaurants in Tulum
  • Tulum Beaches
  • Tulum Top things to See and do!
  • Getting Around Tulum
  • Gay Tulum – When to visit?
  • Tulum Villas
  • Other Gay Travel News

Where to Stay in Gay Tulum?

Tulum is full of independent charming boutique hotels offering beach side luxury with an relaxed vibe, embracing the natural beauty of the surrounding jungle.

Hotel Jashita

The Hotel Jashita, one of many small boutique hotels by the beach in Tulum.

Tulum is roughly divided into 2 main areas: the pueblo (downtown) and the playa (beach), about 5 km apart from one another. There is no electrical grid reaching the beach zone, which means there hotels are independently owned or belong to small, high-quality, local chains – cozy by necessity because they are all solar-powered or run by small generators

Book very early for the best hotels on the Tulum beach. Six months in advance is good, nine months is better.

Tulum has several beautiful villas by the beach and in the town. They are finished to a very high standard and some even offer a full time chef! The villas are great for special occasions or for groups seeking affordable 5 star luxury. Check out our top 10 villa guide to Tulum!

Recommended Hotels in Gay Tulum

Mezzanine Hotel

The Mezzanine

Allow yourself the opportunity to enjoy. Enjoy happiness, rays of the sun, a beautiful beach and breath-taking views. Relish great service in a stunning, luxurious hotel. Mezzanine offers you that Mexican vacation you’ve been waiting for.



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La Valise

La Valise

Tulum’s Best Boutique Hotel on the Beach – La Valise is the perfect beach and jungle getaway with its beautiful rooms and stunning beachfront views it makes for the most picturesque stay on the beach in Tulum. Heated infinity pool overlooking the jungle on one end and breath-taking views of the Caribbean ocean on the other side. Beds directly on the beach for lounging in the day or laying beneath the stars at night.



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Una Vida Tulum

Una Vida Tulum

This hotel is located in The Pueblo. This neighborhood has a local vibe, boutique hotels and located about a 15 min bike ride to the beaches.

Eleven separate and independent Villas, with jungle and garden views. Among tall trees, dream catchers and locally sourced handcrafts, with a zen like pool and common area, Una Vida is a fit for families, friends and couples looking for a quiet, fun and chic atmosphere to spend time together.



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Gay Map of Tulum

Address: Carretera Tulum-Boca Paila Km 4.4, Zona Hotelera, Tulum

  • Cliffside setting with rare elevated views over the beach.
  • Small boutique hotel with a quiet, private atmosphere.
  • Known for its Thai restaurant and sunset terrace.
  • Not a gay hotel, but popular with gay travellers.
  • Not close to gay nightlife, better suited to quiet stays.
  • Best for couples or short stays away from the main scene.
  • Website

Address: Aldea Zama, 77760 Tulum, Q.R., Mexico

  • Set in Aldea Zama, a short ride from Tulum Centro.
  • Boutique hotel with villas, pool, and quiet surroundings.
  • Feels residential rather than part of the beach club scene.
  • Close enough to reach gay nightlife in Centro by taxi.
  • Not a social hotel, better for privacy and slower stays.
  • Good base between town nightlife and beach day trips.
  • Website

Address: Carretera Tulum-Boca Paila Km 8.7, Zona Hotelera, 77760 Tulum

  • Beachfront and jungle suites with strong indoor-outdoor design.
  • Set on the south beach road, quieter than central hotel zone spots.
  • Close to beach clubs and nightlife but removed from the noise.
  • Not a gay hotel, though popular with gay travellers.
  • Focused on privacy, space, and a slower pace.
  • Good base with easy access to Tulum’s gay nightlife by taxi.
  • Website

Address: Hotel Zone, Tulum-Boca Paila Road, KM 3.5, 77780 Tulum

  • Beachfront hotel with jungle and ocean-facing rooms.
  • Set in the hotel zone, close to beach clubs and nightlife.
  • Not a gay hotel, but popular with gay travellers.
  • Quiet feel compared to nearby party-led venues.
  • Close to nightlife, though not part of the scene.
  • Good base for beach stays with easy access to nights out.
  • Website

Address: Carretera Tulum-Boca Paila Km 3.5-4, Zona Hotelera, Tulum

  • Beachfront hotel with jungle and ocean-facing rooms.
  • Set in the hotel zone, near beach clubs and nightlife.
  • Not a gay hotel, but popular with gay travellers.
  • Quieter feel than nearby party-led venues.
  • Close to nightlife, though not part of it.
  • Best for beach stays with easy access to late nights by taxi.
  • Website

Address: Carretera Tulum-Boca Paila Km 7.2, Zona Hotelera, 77780 Tulum

  • Long sandy beachfront with loungers, hammocks, and bar swings.
  • Feels calmer and less showy than many Tulum beach clubs nearby.
  • Set in the hotel zone, built for long beach days over hard partying.
  • Not a gay venue, but comfortable for a mixed international crowd.
  • Best for breakfast, lunch, sea views, and an easy all-day setup.
  • Open: Daily 7am-10:30pm, beach club daily 10am-5:30pm
  • Website

 

Address: Zona Hotelera / Playa Paraíso area, Tulum, Q.R., Mexico

  • Closer to Playa Paraíso than the dressed-up beach road venues.
  • Simple beach-club setup built around sea views and easy access.
  • Not a gay venue, though the beach has mixed and gay visitors.
  • Feels more casual and older Tulum than the trend-driven spots.
  • Best for a low-key beach stop rather than a scene-led day out.
  • Open: Daily

Address: Zona Arqueológica de Tulum, 77765 Tulum, Q.R., Mexico

  • Cliffside beach directly below the Tulum ruins.
  • Small cove with limited space and constant foot traffic.
  • No loungers or service, just sand and sea.
  • Mixed visitors, not a gay beach but gay-friendly.
  • Best as a short swim stop after visiting the ruins.
  • Open: Mon-Sun 8am-5pm, last access 3:30pm
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Address: C. Centauro Sur, Tulum Centro, 77760 Tulum, Q.R., Mexico

  • The blue Beetle and sugarcane press set the tone outside.
  • Known for fresh guarapo mojitos made to order at the bar.
  • Located in Tulum Centro, away from the beach club strip.
  • Mixed crowd with a steady flow of gay travellers and locals.
  • Busy, loud, and best late when the street fills up.
  • Open: Mon-Sat 7am-1am, Sun closed
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Address: 77760 Tulum Centro, Tulum, Mexico

  • Drag shows and go-go nights shape the atmosphere here.
  • Small, dark room that fills quickly once the night gets going.
  • Located in Tulum Centro, away from the beach club scene.
  • One of the few dedicated gay bars in Tulum.
  • Raw, local feel with a late-night crowd and strong energy.
  • Open: Wed-Sun 8pm-late, Mon-Tue closed
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Address: Avenida Tulum 4, 77760 Tulum, Q.R., Mexico

  • More café-bar-cultural space than classic nightlife venue.
  • Vinyl nights and live music give it a real local pull.
  • Set in Tulum Centro, away from the beach-club crowd.
  • Rooftop, mezcal, and board games make it feel less staged.
  • Best for drinks and music with a creative downtown crowd.
  • Open: Sun-Thu 10:30am-1am, Fri-Sat 11am-1:30am
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Address: Carretera Tulum-Boca Paila Km 7.5, Zona Hotelera, Tulum

  • Jungle setting on the beach road, built for dinner and late nights.
  • Known for its Thursday and Saturday Jungle Party sessions.
  • More polished hotel-zone energy than a casual town bar.
  • Mixed crowd, with gay travellers among the regular visitors.
  • Best for cocktails, dinner, and music in a dressed-up Tulum setting.
  • Open: Tue-Sat 6pm-late, Sun-Mon closed
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Address: Carr. Tulum-Boca Paila Km. 7.5, Zona Hotelera, 77780 Tulum

  • Set on the jungle road, with palms, candlelight & mezcal bar energy.
  • Known for a dinner crowd that stays on for drinks and music.
  • In the hotel zone, with a polished crowd rather than a local bar feel.
  • Not a gay bar, but popular with many gay travellers in Tulum.
  • Best for a dressed-up night with Tulum’s signature jungle aesthetic.
  • Open: Daily 6pm-late
  • Instagram

 

Gay and Gay Friendly bars in Tulum

Fruity Tulum

Dancing each night!

Fruity Tulum

Theme nights in high season.

Fruity Tulum

Great place to meet friends.

Batey Bar

Fun crowd every night.

Casa Jaguar

High end cocktails!

Gitano

Mexcal cocktails here are the best!

Tulum Gay Scene

Tulum is a laid-back laissez-faire destination with a live-and-let-live attitude. The scene is definitely gay-friendly, less circuit-party and more afternoon T-dance.

Tulum is safe, friendly and runs on its own time. No rushing or watches necessary.

The town attracts visitors from around the world, from expat hippies to hipsters. No matter where you visit, you will find a warm welcome from both locals and fellow chilled travellers.

Tulum Gay Friendly Bars

  • La Guardia – Gay friendly bar with a Spanish vibe, located downtown, popular with gay locals. Live jazz bands and cosy vibe. We love “Anything goes” Sunday!
  • Gitano has a laid-back ambiance and great outdoor seating with a great cocktail menu. Order some Mezcal or Mexican Gin.
  • Try some expertly made cocktails at Casa Jaguar, where they combine Mezcal with hibiscus, cinnamon, and orange.
  • Todos Santos has great service, excellent music and in a stylish location.
  • Visit Batey, ( look out for the brightly painted old Beetle parked outside) a downtown bar that specialises in mojitos made with local fruit, pressed as you watch.

Gay Party

  • Fruity Tulum Party – Pop up party happening every few weeks. Fruity organize events in different locations in Tulum town. All are welcome. Events are posted on instagram.

Gay Friendy Restaurants in Tulum

Hartwood

Show up early for a table.

Casa Bananna

Best steak in town.

Arca

Flame Grilled Mexican dishes!

Meze

Mykonos meets Tulum!

Wild

Chic Jungle Dining

Posada Margherita

Stunning dining venue.

You will find Tulum’s best restaurants in the Pueblo and Middle Beach Zone. The Pueblo has more authentic, affordable restaurants, while the Middle Beach Zone has more chic, upscale eateries. Most restaurants in the beach zones are on the jungle side of the road with outdoor seating.

  • Visit Tunich for some great all day brunch including chilaquiles and egges benedict.
  • Try the ceviche and seafood at El Camello
  • Dine out at Los Aguachiles. Try their los figurines (lettuce wraps with fresh seafood) and aguachidos, an extra-spicy northern take on ceviche with cucumber, pickled red onion, purple cabbage, and a habanero salsa that the menu says is “grate for killing a hangover.”
  • Try Posada Margherita a fabulous beachside Italian restaurant with freshly prepared pastas and pizzas.
  • Hartwood is solar powered and candle lit with a first served policy and a daily changing menu that runs out quickly!
  • Try MEZE is a stylish Greek taverna specializing in meze plates (the Greek version of tapas) and creative cocktails.
  • Arca is in the Middle Beach zone and serves flame cooked Maya-Mexican dishes and is open Tuesday to Sunday. Reservations are recommended. Cash only..
  • Clan Destino, also in the Middle Beach zone is built around a private cenote in the jungle and serves delicious burgers and classic cocktails.
  • Wild is a chic jungle dining experience offering gourmet Mexican dishes. Great for a special occasion.
  • Meat lovers will adore Casa Banana with the best steak in town and must-try homemade chorizo.

Credit Card V Cash? How to pay.

Most restaurants and bars, even the pricy ones, are cash only. You can pay in either Mexican pesos or U.S. dollars, but the exchange rate works in your favour if you pay in pesos. Thankfully, there are plenty of ATMs around—just make sure that the one you’re at dispenses local currency.

Tulum Beaches

South Beach Zone

Chill out in luxury.

Playa Ruinas

The most iconic beach in Tulum.

Ziggy Beach Tulum

Great beach club with music.

Tulum is blessed with truly amazing beaches with white powdery sands and azure waters. The beaches are great for swimming as Tulum is protected against the rough seas from the nearby Island of Cozumel. The beach is further divided into about 4 areas.

  • North beach zone is a quiet, romantic area with great hotels and restaurants near the ancient Maya ruins.
  • The beach town is at the centre, busy with shops, restaurants and hotels.
  • The middle beach zone has luxury hotels and great nightlife option while the South Beach zone is more relaxed and home to luxury hotels and yoga retreats.

Playa Ruinas

One of the most-photographed beaches in the Americas, this beach is home to the clifftop Castillo, built as a watchtower in the 13th century. It has become the third most-visited archaeological site in Mexico after Teotihuacan and Chichén Itzá. The beach itself however is quiet and relaxed. Book a hotel near here!

Santa Fe

The Santa Fe beach can be found 5 minutes from the Mayan Ruins and is the prefect place for an afternoon of sunbathing.

Playa Paraiso

This beach is aptly named and lives up to its reputation. The beach is surrounded by looming palm trees and rugged cliffs. The beach is large, so even when it gets busy, there is plenty of space, and if you are feeling peckish, head to some of the great seafront restaurants for food and cocktails. Stay close to Playa Paraiso.

South Beach

For a truly luxurious beach experience, rent a cabana at Casa Malca or Nest’s beach clubs (reservations recommended). For a more low key beach experience, visit Om or Maalix’s Beach Clubs

Middle Beach Zone

This is the liveliest beachfront in Tulum lined with hotels, restaurants, shops and bars. The beach is long and full of uninterrupted sugary white sand. Try Cocos beach club for a lively vibe and hip sun lounger neighbours!

Beaches beyond Tulum

Akumal Beach is just a 30 minute drive from central Tulum. It has everything you need for a beach-day escape with plenty of restaurants, bars and sun loungers to rent.

Those looking for a more relaxed retreat should head to “Secret Beach” a secluded spot located deep in the Sian Ka’an Biosphere reserve.  It takes about an hour to reach by bike!

Tulum Top things to See and do!

Tulum Tours

Explore Tulum from the sea!

Grand Cenote

Dive in a Cenote

Tulum Ruins

Explore the Tulum Ruins

Even though Tulum is small, it packs in many sights to see! There is way more to do in Tulum than the nearby hotspots of Cancun or Playa del Carmen.

  • Tulum’s main attraction, the beach, is separated from downtown by a short drive or a long walk, so rent a bike for a few days while you are there.
  • Dive into the Gran Cenote, one of the most beautiful freshwater cenotes with clear waters, perfect for snorkeling. Calavera and Carwash are also worth a visit.
  • Take a day trip to Akumal, where you can snorkel with the Turtles.
  • No trip to Tulum is complete without a visit to the Mayan Ruins, perched high on a cliff with sweeping vistas.
  • Explore the Sian Ka’an Biosphere Reserve, which translates to ‘where the sky is born” and explore its virgin beaches and natural wonders.
  • Take your tastebuds on a journey through Mexico's most renowned artisanal spirit: Mezcal!
  • Have fun at the Xel-Ha eco adventure park. Jump off the Cliff of Courage, explore ruins, zip line through the jungle or relax in a hammock.

Getting Around Tulum

Tulum Zones

Tulum consists of three zones: Tulum Pueblo, the town center where you can find numerous restaurants; Zona Hotelera, the hotel zone near most of the beaches; and the Tulum Ruins, home to many of the area's old Mayan structures.

Tulum Airport

  • The new Felipe Carrillo Puerto International Airport (TQO) in Tulum, Mexico recently opened on December 1, 2023.
  • The airport is expected to become the second busiest airport in the region after Cancun International Airport.
  • Airlines servicing the new Tulum Airport include American, United, Delta, Aeromexico, VivaAerobus, and more.
  • The airport is located 12 miles inland south of the center of Tulum, making it more convenient for travelers to access Tulum's attractions and resorts.
  • Transportation options from the Tulum Airport include taxis, rental cars, private car transfers, and ADO buses.

Cancun Airport

Another nearby airport to Tulum is Cancun (CUN).  Tulum is located approximately 81 miles [131 km] from Cancun. Yellow Transfers operates a bus from Cancun International Airport to Tulum ADO Terminal Autobuses every 30 minutes. A taxi will cos around EUR 80 and will take approximately one and a half hours.

Rent a car in Tulum

Renting a car is easy and many hotels allow you to park. You can rent at Cancun airport and take a quick safe ride down the main highway. If you arrive in Cancun at a busy time of the day you can take shared shuttle service or hire a private car

Getting Around

The best way to get around Tulum is by taxi. You can walk or bike to the beaches, to the ruins and to Tulum Pueblo. You can rent a car in Cancún or Playa del Carmen.

Gay Tulum – When to visit?

  • Tulum's rainiest months are June, September, and October. avoid September and October, the rainiest months.
  • The three-month stretch from end of October to December is the best time to visit, when hurricane season is over and the weather is warm but not oppressively hot.
  • January through March see the biggest wave of tourists, so avoid that time if you're not a fan of crowds.

Tulum Villas

Villa Guacamaya

10 guests · 4 bedrooms · 6 beds · 4.5 baths

Villa Guacamaya

Gorgeous villa with private pool and gym within the calm Tulum’s neighborhood of Holistika. 2 minutes driving from downtown and 15 mins from the beach.

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Yaakunah Tulum Home

7 guests · 3 bedrooms · 4 beds · 3 baths

Luna Mexicana

Set 5 km from Tulum Archeological Site, Yaakunah Tulum Home offers an outdoor swimming pool, a garden and air-conditioned accommodation with a balcony and free WiFi.

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