Gay Sonoma Events

1325 Broadway, Sonoma, California 95476

Situated in Sonoma Valley, the Lodge at Sonoma Resort, Autograph Collection offers a variety of beauty treatments at the full-service Raindance Spa. The Carneros Bistro & Wine Bar features fresh, local cuisine and and extensive selection of California wines.

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630 Broadway, Sonoma, California 95476

This contemporary inn is within walking distance of the historic Sonoma Plaza and near the Sonoma Valley wineries. A full breakfast and afternoon wine and hors d'oeuvres are served daily.

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405 1st Street West, Sonoma, California 95476

Set in a historic building and boasting an outdoor swimming pool, this hotel is located directly across the street from Sonoma Plaza in Sonoma, California.
A restaurant is featured on-site at the El Dorado Hotel.

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29 East Macarthur Street, Sonoma, California 95476

Set on a historic six-acre estate with lush grounds, gardens, winding pathways, a mid-century pool, and a full-service spa utilizing flowers and herbs from property gardens.

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Address: 110 West Spain Street, Sonoma, California 95476

• The Girl & The Fig offers thoughtful food, beautifully curated wines, and a welcoming environment that embraces Sonoma’s LGBTQ+ community.
• Whether you’re in town for wine tasting or a romantic weekend, it’s a place where queer diners can relax, connect, and celebrated.
• Open: Daily 11.30am-9pm, 

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Address: Enoteca Della Santina, 127 E Napa St, Sonoma, California 95476

• Enoteca Della Santina is a cozy, gay-friendly wine bar on Sonoma Plaza, offering over 250 wines and a warm, welcoming vibe.
• Known for its friendly service and relaxed atmosphere, it’s a great spot for solo visits, quiet dates, or pre-dinner drinks with queer friends.
• A laid-back haven for wine lovers in the LGBTQ+ community.
• Open: Daily 4pm-10pm (staurday 2pm-11pm)

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Address: Steiners Tavern, 465 1st St W, Sonoma, California 95476

• Steiner’s Tavern is a longtime Sonoma favorite with a relaxed, gay-friendly vibe, casual pub food, and friendly bartenders. LGBTQ+ guests feel welcome in its warm, sports-bar setting with games, cocktails, and TVs.
• A great local hangout for queer visitors looking for a laid-back spot to mix with locals.
• Open: Daily 7.30am-2am

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Address: 19380 Sonoma Highway, Sonoma, California 95476

• Starling Bar is a gay-friendly cocktail lounge in Sonoma known for its inclusive vibe, creative drinks, and welcoming crowd.
• It hosts regular LGBTQ+ tea dances and live music events, making it a popular spot for queer locals and visitors.
• A relaxed place to connect, unwind, and enjoy top-tier cocktails.

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